Soul Urge 5 and Soul Urge 8
Soul Urge 5 and Soul Urge 8 place two inner drives side by side, what each person most wants underneath. Here is how those wants meet.
How Soul Urge 5 and 8 get along
Liberation and domination: opposite poles of the same hunger for control over your own life. 5's version is achieved by refusing constraint; 8's version is achieved by mastering the environment. The inner lives actually want the same thing, autonomy, but 5's version is evasive and 8's is acquisitive. The relationship works when you stop competing for whose version of power is more legitimate.
The two on their own
Compatibility starts with each number in its own right. Read Soul Urge 5 and Soul Urge 8 first, then come back to how they meet.
Compare your actual charts
Two people are more than one number each. Your Soul Urge numbers set part of the tone, but the rest of both charts and your timing shape the whole. Compare your full charts to see all of it at once.